Something I find insanely attractive is certainty. When someone meets me and almost instantly knows what they feel about me, it shakes me to my core. If they look at me and say, you’re the one, I’m sold.
I know it might sound a lot like love bombing. Maybe it even is. But for me, it speaks to something deeper. It feels magnetic when someone moves toward me with clear intention, with no hesitation, with a sense of exactly where they want to go with me.
That kind of certainty takes a person who knows without question what they want. And maybe that is why I am drawn to it, because it is the decisiveness I often lack in myself.