The complexity of loving others lies in the fact that we cannot control how they perceive or respond to our love. Even if, by chance, they reciprocate our feelings, we still lack the ability to dictate the way they express that love. This reality shows the limited control we have over the trajectory of our lives.

In truth, the only aspect within our control is our own emotions and feelings. Attempting to impose our desires and expectations upon others is a losing game. Therefore, it is essential to embrace a love without expectations. Love unconditionally, continuously, until it becomes impossible not to. Because often, love happens unexpectedly, without deliberate intent; it simply takes hold and leaves us to navigate its influence. Nevertheless, a healthy relationship allows for secure and open communication of our deepest sentiments.

When we love, we must wholeheartedly invest ourselves and remain hopeful for the best outcomes. If our heart happens to break along the way, it is possible that the experience is meant to guide us toward someone who will not shatter it. Regardless of the path, we should recognize the rarity of genuine love. If you find yourself completely and helplessly in love at this very moment, hold onto that sentiment tightly. I certainly am.

There was a time when I believed I would never experience love in its entirety, with unwavering certainty. But now that I have fallen in love, it’s both exhilarating and terrifying. Yet I worry about it constantly. But after realising how pointless worrying about it is,  I’ve made the decision to love with an open heart and hope that I fly and not fall. And trust that if i do fall, they would catch me. After all, love grants them the power to potentially hurt me, but it also requires a profound trust that they will not.

I love this man more than I have known love. Life without him seems nearly impossible. It’s unhealthy, but I’ve fallen in love recklessly and helplessly. And right now, all I want is to savor this moment and revel in being in love.

Love often leaves us feeling powerless, and maybe it’s in that vulnerability that its true beauty resides.