The reason he’s such a letdown is that he was meant to be a safer option. Because it is safer when someone likes you and approaches you. We end up preferring those who are already interested in us rather than going after someone we want. That’s what happened when you’ve been shot down so many times. And it appears to be a good thing until it isn’t, since for some, these chases are like conquests designed to boost their ego. For them, girls aren’t just girls; they’re trophies and prizes to be shown in their score cards among their animal friends. So, in this quest, they promise the world – anything for the win – the prize that is you. And in the end they leave you, nothing but compromised. After endless lies of “I’m different” and “oh baby, I would never do that to you”, fucking lies my humble heart couldn’t help but get smitten by.
I know I sound bitter, but it’s only day 3, I think I’m allowed that.
She Was Sea 